The Little Moments of Temptation
Let’s talk about temptation.
I was sitting in my car this morning, and I did not want to get out and walk. I do this every day. I jog, then I walk, because I know how good it is for my mental health. I know I NEED it.
But in that moment?
What felt good was sitting in my heated seat, scrolling on my phone.
And if I’m being honest, I stayed there longer than I should have.
I think a lot of people can relate to that. You know what needs to be done… you just don’t want to do it. You want to do what feels good right now.
That’s where temptation really shows up.
We tend to think of temptation as the big things- cheating, addiction, gambling… all the obvious stuff. But I don’t think that’s where it starts. I think it shows up in the small, everyday moments.
The quiet ones.
The ones no one else sees.
If we’re willing to give in to the little things, it becomes a lot easier to give in to the big ones.
It’s a pattern.
It looks like choosing the bakery over the gym… and telling yourself it’s “just this once.”
It looks like picking up a tv remote when you know you should be spending time in the Word.
It looks like scrolling when your kids are asking you to play.
None of those things seem like a big deal on their own. But over time, they add up. They slowly pull us away from the goals we say we want.
And that’s the part I think we have to be really honest about.
We pride ourselves on having good intentions. We set goals. We talk about what we’re going to do. And that feels great. It almost feels like we’ve already accomplished something just by intending to.
But intention and action are not the same thing.
At some point, we have to ask ourselves:
What am I actually choosing?
Not what do I want to do.
Not what do I plan to do.
But what am I doing, daily, in those small moments?
Are my choices moving me closer to my goals?
Or are they slowly pulling me away?
Those little decisions, they matter more than we think.
They’re shaping our habits.
They’re shaping our discipline.
They’re shaping our future.
So maybe today, it’s not about overhauling everything. Maybe it’s just about paying attention.
Noticing the small temptations.
Recognizing the patterns.
And choosing, on purpose, to do the thing you know you need to do. Even when you don’t feel like it.
Growth doesn’t usually come from what feels good in the moment.
It comes from what we choose in spite of it.